Day 3: When Preferences Become Problems

We all have preferences. Some of us like the temperature a little cooler, others prefer it warmer. Some enjoy contemporary worship songs, while others connect more deeply with traditional hymns. These preferences aren't inherently wrong—they're part of what makes us unique individuals created by God. The problem arises when our preferences become more important to us than our purpose. When we allow our personal likes and dislikes to create division in the church, we've lost sight of why we're really there.

We're not gathering primarily for our own comfort or entertainment; we're coming together to worship God and encourage one another in faith. Think about it: if worldly organizations can find ways to work together despite differences, how much more should believers be able to unite around our common faith in Christ? We serve the same Lord, share the same salvation, and have the same Holy Spirit living within us. These commonalities far outweigh any surface-level preferences we might have.

The next time you find yourself getting frustrated because things aren't exactly the way you'd prefer them, pause and ask yourself: "Is this really worth creating division over?" Most of the time, the answer will be no. Instead of focusing on what you don't like, try to appreciate the heart behind what's being done and remember that others may be blessed by the very things that don't appeal to you.

When we surrender our preferences for the sake of unity, we create an environment where God can work powerfully through His people.

Bible Verse

"Dear friends, although I was very eager to write to you about the salvation we share, I felt compelled to write and urge you to contend for the faith that was once for all entrusted to God's holy people." - Jude 1:3

Reflection Question

What personal preferences or comfort zones might you need to surrender in order to promote greater unity and growth in your church family?

Prayer

Lord, forgive me for the times I've allowed my personal preferences to become more important than unity in Your body. Help me to focus on what truly matters—our shared faith and mission. Give me a heart that's willing to sacrifice my comfort for the sake of others and for Your glory. Amen.